You cannot make a person happy
“You can make a person smile, feel good and laugh. However, whether a person is happy or not is deeply and utterly and totally out of your control” – Will Smith
We said man, well said. Here is a fellow human that gets it. Considering his fame and influence, you can see when a person is humble. My respect goes out to him.
I saw the below video on Facebook today and thought it would be a wonderful video to share as it touches on some of the previous articles that I have written.
Love and Happiness with Your Partner
Will Smith reflects on when they married (referring to Jada of course) and the concept of becoming one. However, now the realisation is that of two individual’s experiencing two completely separate journeys and that they are choosing to walk their separate journeys together. Such a wonderful use of words.
Personally I feel this is one of those thoughts, “Why was I not taught this at school?” How different would my own life be had I know this before I got married and divorced. I do believe that things happen as they must, I have a wonderful daughter because of my journey so far. I would do all that again to be sitting where I am now.
To finish off the thought on how different would my life be. There are certain things that we should be taught at school that we are not. One of them is relationships. Why do we yurn to be in a relationship and what should we be looking for in a partner.
Before watching this video, the last few days I have been mulling over, where to from here. This video has confirmed my thoughts of what I want to achieve with this website. So a sincere thanks from me to Will.
Please take 2mins and 25 seconds from your day to watch this wonderful video. I hope it gives you some insight into your own life and depth to your own love and happiness with your partner. If there is no partner yet, keep this videos message in mind when heading into your next relationship.
As a final thought, I concur with the point that Will makes in regard to being responsible for your own happiness.